Your Attachment Style-And Why It May Be Cockblocking Your Manifesting

Hey there, gorgeous one!

Let’s talk about something juicy and life-changing: attachment styles and how they could be the sneaky culprits holding you back from manifesting your dream life. Yep, those early life experiences with caregivers? They’re showing up in your relationships and your manifesting mojo. But don’t worry—you’re about to turn that around. 💥

What the F Are Attachment Styles?

Attachment styles are deeply ingrained patterns that influence how we connect with others and handle emotions. They develop in childhood based on how our caregivers met (or didn’t meet) our needs. These styles shape everything—our relationships, self-worth, and even our ability to trust the universe.

Here’s a quick breakdown:

1. Secure Attachment:

• Comfortable with closeness and independence.

• Trusts the process, people, and the universe.

• Easily balances self-care and connection.

2. Anxious (Preoccupied) Attachment:

• Craves closeness but fears abandonment.

• Seeks reassurance constantly and overthinks everything.

• Sends mixed signals to the universe like, “I want this… but I’m terrified I’ll never get it!”

3. Avoidant (Dismissive) Attachment:

• Values independence over intimacy.

• Resists vulnerability and pushes desires (and people) away.

• Tells the universe, “I don’t need this… but secretly I do.”

4. Disorganized (Fearful-Avoidant) Attachment:

• Desires connection but is afraid of getting hurt.

• Experiences emotional chaos and inner conflict.

• Tends to block or sabotage their manifestations with fear.

How This Plays Out in Daily Life

Your attachment style shows up in how you:

• Handle stress: Secure types self-soothe, while others may over-rely on external validation or avoid stress entirely.

• Give and receive love: Anxious types over-give, avoidants resist receiving love, and disorganized types struggle with both.

• Communicate: Secure individuals express themselves openly; other styles may avoid or indirectly communicate their needs.

Attachment Styles & Manifesting

Here’s where things get interesting: Your attachment style affects your limiting beliefs, which shape the energy you send out to the universe.

• Anxious folks may hold beliefs like, “I’ll only be happy when I get this thing.” (Hello, lack energy!)

• Avoidant types might think, “I’m fine on my own,” while secretly blocking abundance.

• Disorganized souls often feel, “What if I get it and lose it?” which keeps them stuck.

How to Shift & Manifest Like a Boss

Breaking free from these patterns is your golden ticket to manifesting your wildest dreams. Here’s how:

1. Identify Your Style: Awareness is EVERYTHING. Which attachment style resonates with you? (If you’re unsure, a quick online quiz can help!)

2. Rewrite the Story: Replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones.

• Anxious? Try: “I trust the universe to deliver in perfect timing.”

• Avoidant? Say: “It’s safe to open up to abundance.”

• Disorganized? Affirm: “I can handle joy and success with ease.”

3. Tap Into Secure Energy: Visualize yourself as someone who trusts the universe completely—because you’re worthy of all the good stuff.

4. Practice Receiving: Start small—accept compliments, gifts, or help without deflecting. The more you receive, the more you attract.

Manifesting Tip of the Week

Before you meditate, journal, or create your vision board, check in with your vibe. Are you sending mixed signals? Are you trusting the process? Adjust as needed because, darling, the universe matches your energy.

Final Yeehaw

Your attachment style isn’t your destiny—it’s your starting point. By recognizing and shifting these patterns, you’ll unlock a whole new level of manifesting power. You deserve the good stuff, and the universe is ready to deliver.

Now go out there and manifest like the magnificent human you are! ✨

Big hugs and high vibes,

Sarah xx

Your sassy guide from The Intention House

P.S. Got questions or aha moments about attachment styles? Hit reply—I’d love to hear from you!